Wednesday, September 30, 2009

My husband cheating on me

He did not, but I had a very vivid dream last night that we were at a class in an auditorium and he went to sit by this girl and they were holding hands. When I approached them, they just acted like I was the crazy one and the girl said she knew he was married, but for whatever reason he did not tell her we have a 3 month old baby... I wasn't happy at all- I broke her hand.
It was very weird, but so real. Luckily, my husband let me tell him about this when we woke up. I said "I guess it made me even more upset that you would cheat on me and not tell her about our baby, I would think that since we have a baby, you wouldn't cheat on me." he said "I wouldn't cheat on you even when we didn't have a baby."
Weird dream... He also suggested thinking of things I want to dream about before I go to sleep "that's always helped me"... I will try. I hate it when your dreams are so real that you wake up crying or angry... weird.

3 comments:

  1. remember to pray for good dreams (or pray to be spared from the bad dreams) :) It worked for me every night I prayed ... probably 3 or more years. (make sure you do it right before you fall asleep)

    Also, I vote you change the title of this post. Even knowing you wrote it, it freaked me out. I'm sure it gets people to read it though ;)

    ReplyDelete
  2. yes, i hate how REAL dreams are, too & i've been having some strange, bad ones lately, too. well, knowing your hubby, i'm pretty confident he'd be the LAST man to cheat on his wife or baby! ;) ...keep up the positive thoughts before bed, or listen to good music, or watch a cartoon movie...

    ReplyDelete
  3. Dreams can be disgustingly real and the residue remains throughout the day into days. Please do not allow it to penetrate your thoughts, or well-being. Dream interpretation can be very interesting and typically has nothing to do with the exact detail of the event, but an underlying fear or message. You have to remember you are everyone in your dreams. You are him, you are her, you are you. The cheating/hand holding is a self-betrayal from your subconscious. Do not allow the stresses of your day inflitrate your peace.

    ReplyDelete